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Writer's pictureEddie Eccker, MS, LMFT

Epigenetics & Mental Health: The DNA Dance

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Did you know that every single step you take toward a life-sustaining action physically alters your cells and DNA? Yep, your day-to-day choices don’t just change habits or mindsets—they literally shift things at a genetic level, laying the groundwork for individual healing and even mending generational trauma.


Epigenetics, the study of how behaviors and environment can impact the way your genes work, reveals a simple yet powerful truth. You may not be able to rewrite the genetic code you were born with, but you can retrain how your DNA expresses itself. And this often starts with one simple act—just one step toward something life-giving.



But here’s the kicker—it doesn't have to be perfect. Contrary to what social media or self-help culture screams at us, every step toward progress, however small and jagged, contributes to visibly real, biological transformation.


The DNA Dance is epigenetics at work
Epigenetics at work

What Does "Taking a Step" Look Like?

Taking a step could mean something different for everyone. For you, it might be starting a routine, setting boundaries, or leaning into a support system. For someone else, it may involve digging deeper, confronting hidden pain, or daring to care for their physical body through better nourishment and exercise.


Here are just a few examples of the kinds of life-sustaining "steps" that begin this DNA dance:


Small Steps with Big Impacts

  • Morning sunshine on your face, letting it whisper a reminder that hope rises again every day.

  • Choosing holistic nutrition that fuels your body over processed foods that leave you sluggish.

  • Starting with five minutes of movement instead of scrolling through your phone.

  • Reading something meaningful that sparks curiosity or understanding.


Bigger Steps for Transformative Change

  • Setting healthy boundaries with relationships that leave you drained.

  • Leaving toxic environments, whether it’s work, home, or social circles.

  • Facing the uncomfortable truth that some habits—no matter how familiar or comforting—might be sabotaging your progress.

  • Saying yes to professional guidance, whether that’s trauma counseling, mentorship, or therapy.


The Science of Healing Genetics Through Action

Epigenetics dives deep into how external factors—like the ones above—impact gene expression. Think of it this way: Your DNA carries the blueprint, but your environment acts like a contractor, deciding which parts of the blueprint to emphasize or suppress. Even if trauma and adversity are written into your genes, your choices can "silence" destructive patterns through epigenetic reprogramming.


Yep, this can trickle down to break the dusty old cycles of generational trauma! By taking a step toward healing and reshaping your internal environment, you don’t just shift things for yourself—you contribute to the well-being of future generations, too. Smile—you’re literally altering history.


Healing Isn't Linear, and That's Okay

Now, I know what you’re thinking—this sounds amazing, but what about stumbling? What about the days we don't feel like hopping on the treadmill of life-sustaining choices? Here's the thing—a step forward, no matter how small, always beats standing still. And if you wobble or trip, you can catch your balance and take another step. Healing is rarely linear; it's a seesaw of progress and pause.


Each setback is part of the rhythm. Like a dancer learning choreography, sometimes you miss the beat. No problem—just rejoin the song. Perfection isn’t the goal here. Participation and willingness are.


"What About Trauma Counseling?”

Sometimes, healing requires help untangling the big knots. If a professional guide—someone trained to help you understand and release trauma—is one of the steps you need to take, don’t hesitate. Trauma counseling isn’t for the weak. It’s for those brave enough to step into the trenches of their hurt and fight for peace.


It’s humbling, even raw work—but the "you" on the other side of it can be unrecognizably lighter, freer, and stronger. A trauma counselor won’t fix you (because you aren’t broken to begin with), but they can help you carve out a safe place to confront the pain without being consumed by it.


Start Small

One of the most toxic myths floating around the self-help space is that only big, sweeping changes count. False. Healing doesn't demand a grand gesture. It often begins with one small, imperfect step—a morning walk, a flipped page in a book, a heartfelt apology, a deep breath.


And here's the truth, even when it feels messy, even when your energy to push forward feels threadbare, you are worth the next step.


Take the Lead

Remember, epigenetics isn’t about the past dictating your reality. It’s about learning to reshape the tools you’ve been given and building a better life—one decision at a time. The dance of DNA expression is ongoing, and it’s waiting for you to take the next step.

If counseling feels like the next best step, we’d be honored to walk alongside you. Healing isn’t just something to hope for—it’s something you can actively build, bit by bit.


Because all it takes...

is one step, then another.


This article was inspired by Anya Schnieder, check her out if you need services.

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